My husband is not what some might call “naturally dominantâ€. What I have determined, however, is that a non-naturally dominant husband can successfully lead a taken in hand relationship, albeit with greater effort. No, I have not found that he changes in to a “naturally dominant,†as it would negate the whole meaning of natural, wouldn’t it. Nor does he necessarily allow long dormant dominant abilities to finally rise to the surface (although my husband did grow up in a very liberal New England college town which could suppress any man’s dominant tendencies). From what I've seen, with the support of his wife unreservedly offering her submission, he can work to develop leadership skills which can flourish in that environment. I am outgoing and a natural leader in many situations and my husband, who is shy by nature, has often tended to lean toward the assistant role.